…someone I’ve been following for some time now, so I’ve seen the way she reacts to other commenters; all honey when they agree with her, but venom and brimstone when even one little remark is out of alignment with something she said. This is an attitude I very much am not in favor of. I cherish openness, not to mention kindness.
I think a lot of us, consciously or subconsciously can end up being like this. It's natural to react when you disagree with someone, or they disagree with you, the challenge is to always maintain dignity, empathy and respect.