…n didn’t know they were being evaluated. They approached meeting him like they would any other man. Handshake. Drinks. A conversation about work, play, sport and the like. The guys were being just themselves in front of my husband.
I wonder if there was another game within the game going on here. In that the new boyfriend realised that your husband was a mate (or a mate of a mate) of their new girlfriend so was somehow trying to people-please him. With blokes this can be a dangerous game because often you end up going more laddy (more sport, more beer, more "banter") because that's what you assume a bloke you don't know will respond to. I enjoyed this article and it really made me think. I wonder if judging people really quickly just off someone else's instinct is always a good idea though?