I'm so sorry for your loss, Lisa. I've been away the last few weeks, so only just catching up on articles. I totally see your point in this article. As I understand it, the "greatest commandment" (in Christianity, but it echoes in every other faith too) is to LOVE EACH OTHER. And yet so much about Christianity (and it echoes in every other faith too) is about judgement and status. The ultimate hypocrisy.