When you're fat people assume that you have been lazy and indulgent YOUR WHOLE LIFE, including right now, at the point they see you or meet you. But there could be any number of reasons why you gained weight over a short amount of time a long time ago, then have eaten healthily and maintained (rather than go on some high speed weight loss programe) since then. A short period of weight gain, a lifetime of judgement.

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